The old times were good because of many factors, as at that times every one has time for others, either they are relatives or neighbors, The people of past days also had events to have lunch or dinners together, The golden past also have reliable communication systems like Postal letters mechanism. Past times are best because the people were sense of trust on each other, the society based on truth and they have strong family relations. But Now, the life is totally different, People didn't have time for each other, Even Father haven't much information about his children, Every one has his/her own define territories within a family. If any family member like Grandparents try to cross the limits of their grand son or great grand-daughter territories for the sake of improvement of relation with family, Then the proxy War begins between the groups of Father & Mother, In fathers Group Grand parents of their children are the stake holders however in Mothers group her children are the team members. The whole situation weak down the relations between family, End result the family tension raise to that peak where the relation breaks. These type of stories prevail in everywhere in our society. But What is the solution to avoid these type of family problem? In my observation, as Family member we need to limit down interventions of social network in our daily life. Like Facebook etc., We need to define territories not for the family members but for the social networks, We have to stop them before they tearoff our family relations. And I questioned you all that " Where Are we Going? "