In todays' world of ever increasing competition, we all try our best to be more perfect, more outstanding and more self-competent. But there is always one factor that somehow enters in our minds when we face an unpredicatable situation like any terrible incident, being humiliated by someone, ridiculed by our friends or teachers because they think that we cannot go ahead in life or that we are too weak to survive in this society that demands almost being perfect. The truth is that we are not perfect at all and we cannot become perfect in life or in this society as well. The best way to remove all the doubts that different people put in our minds is to just think positive and be more grateful. Because in our society, there are some people in the society who dont have the basic necessities of the life, so for them to being perfect is not a matter of concern to them. There is a very huge role in being positive to one's self. You can focus on your positive aspects of your personality and be grateful to Allah Almighty that you are one of the many people in this world who are blessed. And if someone criticises you that you are weak, incompetent, the best way is to completely ignore that person and immerse yourself into positivity, being hope and trying to improve yourself, your personality in a way that you can contribute to this society and to be grateful to Allah Almighty that you have helped not only yourself, but others too with your knowledge and positivity.